Placing an Ad

First you have to decide how much this is all worth to you. You can join all of these services for free, but the real value and the good "action" comes when you decide to pay to join one of them. It's really a small investment towards a lot of fun. Definitely look into the annual membership, too. You save a lot of money that way, and once you've got a presence on the site as a member, you're not going to want to worry about having your membership run out. Most of these places have a deal where you save about 20% or two months free with the purchase of 12, so definitely go for that savings. Swingers know this already; partners come and partners go, and you always have to be on the lookout for new ones, so trust me on this one.

Next you have to decide which service(s) to join. In my opinion, there are two that really stand out from the rest. If you're looking for just swinging, try Adult Friend Finder. They really are the largest on the web, with over 5 million ads placed by members. A search on couples seeking couples in my state (Oregon) turned up over 5,000 results, sesults, so you can definitely find some new friends on this system!

If you're into Bondage, Dominance or S&M at all, you definitely want to join Alt.com. They have over 300,000 members, and a search of their ads made me so hot I decided to sign us up for that one too! So, if you're a female looking for a little discipline or domination by a dark vixen, let me know; I'm on as MandMK503, so look me up!

Most of these services work out to less than $10 a month if you buy the annual membership -- how much do you spend on going out to bars and clubs and *not* hooking up? Seems cheap now, doesn't it?

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