Photos

The next thing you need to prepare for your adventure is a few good photos. I mean *good* photos. They should be well-lit, in focus, and give a good representation of what you really look like. Let's face it; a lot of sexual attraction is based on being attracted to the way the person looks, so if you're going to make the transition from first meeting to "getting it on" you're better off showing people what you really look like to start with. Your photos don't necessarily have to be of you naked, although it's nice to have some of that type too, but nice, sexy shots that show off your best features are just the thing. It's okay if you don't want to show off your face at first; I understand the worry of running into your boss or your cousin online, so shots can show off your body without making your identity necessarily known (tattoos notwithstanding...).

If you're working with actual printed photographs that you already have, you are, you are going to have to scan them, or get them scanned. You can buy a decent scanner these days for around $40, so just go get one, okay? Besides, you're going to need one, because your parents-who-want-to-see-pictures-of-the-cat are probably going to be getting online any minute...

If you're really lucky and wired, you have a digital camera. However you accomplish it, you've got to get a few good photos of you and whoever-you're-with into the computer. Have them organized into a folder, and ready to go when you need them. Don't get caught with your digital slip showing.

It's nice if you can make your photos available online so you don't have to email them to everyone who asks about you. If you don't want a web page, you can store photos online for free at

Once you've got your act together, it's time to place an ad.

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