Welcome! These pages assume that you are already involved in the swinging or swapping lifestyle or are fully prepared to become involved. These pages do not presume to tell you how to become involved in swinging, nor whether you should or should not become involved in this lifestyle. If you are still working on that part, there are great pages on the rules and etiquette of swinging. (Yes, I was surprised to find this on about.com also...but it's excellent!)

Couples and single females have the most luck swinging. Yes, I know this is a double standard, but most of you guys will agree with me when I point out that women are just plain more fun to look at than men. I'll write an article soon with pointers for you single men. These suggestions can work for you too, but you should expect a lower batting average than couples and single females. Single females who are anything short of gargoyles will probably have a 100% batting average. :p

It's pretty easy for swingers to "hook up" online. It seems like it's just easier to find a compatible set of partners if you have all the selection the 'net has to offer. They're coming out of the woodwork!! My first piece of advice is that Adult Friend Finder is a great place to start with an ad. They are the largest adult personals with over 5 million members, and you can place an ad for free to try it out.

Now, if you want to swing successfully and hook up online, there are a few things to remember. If you follow these guidelines, I can pretty much guarantee you'll do better than if you don't. Your mileage may vary. Generally speaking, though, it'll be harder to go wrong if you keep a few of these things in mind. If you're part of a couple, I might suggest you and your partner sit down together and read these pages and do these activities together for maximum couple-fun. I've broken them down into several easy steps, so why not go to Lesson 1 now!

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